My boyfriend and I have been together for eight months, but before we were officially monogamous and committed we had been hooking up and talking for a few months. So when he found out I had a one night stand with two of his friends he was very hurt and angry. I did not know they were such good friends when I hooked up with them as one night stands, but unfortunately it happened due to alcohol and bad decisions. However, I have not had many one night stands before him and I am a very loyal and committed girlfriend.
When he brings it up I stay very patient, but it hurts my feelings every time.Banging the mates is definitely a no-no in my books as you can guess the conversation when you and your mates are sitting around the campfire having a few beers. One topic that you would dread and one that you definitely do not want to hear either, how one or two of your mates hammered your steady before you is definitely a friendship killer. It brings me back to Chris Rock and his famous video that states precisely how guys can expect women to behave, I 'll adlib here, "Do you know why your wife is so pissed off with you, because you were not her first choice as she let the good one get away or screwed up that relationship". Video to follow..
The above comment from the stressed female is a great example as to what happens when you spend your life thug banging without reservation and then assume that it has none or little relevance. How does one get that confussed when it is one of the major issues when choosing a partner. The response from the "dear Ami" article is about standard, the bf is the problem ofcourse (standard advice from female heart balm verbalists) and she walks away more confused than assisted. It's just a merry go round.
Women screw up the relationship because of some fantasy that she assumes will eventuate, get's tossed or walks out in the process and then spends years moaning and bitching about how people have problems and won't commit. It's a never ending comedy, but now you can sit back and critically assess the situation as you have been "red pilled"and that realisation just increases as you concentrate your efforts on yourself and your future instead of catering to an individual who apparently has no idea what she wants in the first place..
By the way, want to know how biased and unreasonable the opposite sex has become. Have a look at this bit of malice..
A LESBIAN couple in California who say their 11-year-old son Tommy wants to be a girl named Tammy are giving their child hormone blockers that delay the onset of puberty, so that he can have more time to decide if he wants to change his gender.It's a lot more fun abusing one of your own than having to share the planet with one of them men..
