Two Examples of Standard Behaviour..

What a charming human being they are. 70% single mothers plus highest divorce rate across all samples..

Well, what can one say about this type of hysteria, especially when it involves the combined advantages of being an American female and a black female as well. The combination for volatility, snarkyness and obviously, a major dose of entitlement. It would appear to be the case that the "present" was more important than the relationship. I cannot figure this one out so I will leave it to your imagination, what would induce a female to threaten and attack anyone for not receiving something that would have originally been given as a gesture of appreciation and even, affection!

Fascinating..

I will keep promoting this type of behaviour by women until those lying feminists actually admit to it's existence and that it is not in response to some imaginary defensive reaction..

'Man attacked' for not buying Valentine's gift

A US woman furious at her boyfriend for not giving her a Valentine’s Day gift tried to attack him with a knife, according to reports.

Cincinnati-resident Kierra Reed, 22, got into a verbal altercation with partner Henry Brown just before midnight on the evening of February 14 when she learned he did not have a Valentine’s present for her, FOX19 reports.
Police allege she pushed and scratched Mr Brown until he locked himself inside a bedroom in her apartment.
Reed reportedly took a knife to the door, trying to slash her way in as she yelled that she would cut Mr Brown and kill him.
Police were then called to the scene and Reed was arrested and charged with aggravated menacing.
She was released on a $2300 bail yesterday.

The unreasonableness continues as we witness even further abuse and violent action from the same sex who deny that any of it actually happens at all. In come the feminists and their automatic denial methodology regarding violent and abusive women. Feminists blatantly state that ALL women are victims regardless of their actions or deeds. Well, explain these then you hypocrites and liars..

When the boy spoke to the responding officer, he told him: "Please don't take me home. Mother will beat me," the police report said.

No, well that cannot be correct as feminists tell us constantly. It must be the boy lying, how could the victim be accused of harming anyone when in actual fact she is the victim because she is being charged. There is obviously no justice on this planet. They do it so damn hard..

Also we see the boy pleading for the abuser as is normal for abused victims..

Mom Faces Jail for Making Son Walk to School

An Arkansas mother is being charged with a misdemeanor count of endangering the welfare of a minor after she made her son walk 4.6 miles to school in order to "teach him a lesson."
Valerie Borders, 34, told police her 10-year-old son had been suspended from the bus for a week and she was making him walk to school as punishment.
A bank security guard spotted the boy walking alone in 30-degree weather on Monday and called police. (Ed..30 degrees Fahrenheit is Minus 1 degree Celsius)
When the boy spoke to the responding officer, he told him: "Please don't take me home. Mother will beat me," the police report said.
The officer took the boy to his mother's workplace, only to be told she was on vacation. They found her at home, where she was cited for child endangerment.
"There were a number of things that could have happened to the child," said Lyle Waterworth, a spokesman for the Jonesboro Police Department. "The child could have been injured, abducted."
ABC News affiliate KAIT spoke with the boy, who made an impassioned plea on camera to keep his mother out of jail.
The boy's mother did not speak on camera.
If convicted, she faces up to one year in jail and a maximum fine of $1,000.

What Black Men Think: Why he Hates You..

The feminist's nightmare, the family

I have on my Google reader a site named "What Black Men Think", having been pointed in that direction quite a few years a go and keeping an interest in my coloured brothers has always been there as I have met many and have a very good personal friend as well..

The other side of the coin was the endless expose of black women, especially by Hollywood, who appear to be determined to expose them as heartless, nasty and totally obnoxious bitches, which has appeared to have worked where I am concerned. Couple that with the endless examples of their penchant to banging thugs and being the majority of single mothers (70%) and one does have to wonder what the hell is going on. It's would appear to be a problem with no possibility of change..

So meanwhile we have all black men cast as useless individuals by those exact mommas, just like all men are now derided and castigated by any and most females at will. One has to wonder who is going to wake up first, as it is obviously not working out and also, who will actual admit to being the major culprit for creating, what is obviously becoming, a totally dysfunctional society..

Yes well, someone somewhere has to start the reversing methodology of that society destroying attitude and there are a lot of good guys out there trying hard..

What Black Men Think..

My inquisitive nature wondered why black men, especially the Hip-Hop crowd, started caning the piss out of the sistas a few years back, also wondered if this was just an example, indicator or expression of what they really thought about their women. Think back to when some women bandied together and tried to censure and eliminate that level of vitriol against their own sex, just because it was there and they really did not care why, or the reason it surfaced to begin with, they just wanted it stopped. The girls had their reasons of ensuring their broken pedestal was not completely shattered and destroyed. So they worked at changing the wording of those songs, via threat, denigration and hubris, and it would appear that it did to some degree, work.

But the relentless downhill slide which appears to have affected all poorer communities more, is still rampant as new generations of boys are raised by a majority of single mothers even though we know that women cannot raise a son on their own and still expect that individual to be a normal, happy, balanced human being. The odds are against that as studies clearly demonstrate, a woman is incapable of joining in the ruff and tumble of boisterous lads, as many mothers will happily attest, and also incapable of exposing him to areas that would ensure his ability to prosper, as all he ever would get is the female perspective, not good.

In normal families the mother would educate their son/s on specific areas like affection, hygiene, diet and general physical presentation (they all overlap between parents) but a Father's presence (without him speaking a word) can have a major affect on his thinking by just demonstrating how he interacts with the woman in his life(the boy's mother). Children see a lot more than they hear, learn by example more than lecturing. If that relationship is stable, loving and happy, then it sets a benchmark for his own outlook and behavioral patterns. Feminists are quite aware of this, which is why one of their goals is to destroy the family and give all rights of possession of the child to the mother..

So we have this book and you can read the first chapter on that link supplied. It is about the usual problems that most face and have to deal with but there are more problems created with the influx and expansion of single mothers that can, will and are just way too big to handle, seeing that life already brings copious challenges as it is, without the help of creating more unrequested and undeserved ones..

It is not a matter of a boy needing his dad or male company, it's a matter of having to. Males seek male company desperately, particularly when exposed to the opposite sex for a period of time. The idiosyncrasies of the female mind as well as the endless conversational levels, is just something way too hard to deal with on a constant level. It is akin to escaping a prison cell with the volume turned up and one does have to escape that, if one admits that necessity in all honesty. It is not the case of, if, it's when..

Why He Hates You..

Single mothers would serve their sons better by letting him spend more time at other boy's homes, preferably a married stable home where both parents are present as this with counter the endless single presence of a female, where male company is not only wanted but desperately required, desperately needed. Mothers can only teach boys half of what they need to know. That's a fact as studies have continually demonstrated and that goes for girls as well. They learn a lot by just watching..
The blame is ofcourse not mainly pointed to one sex but I just refuse to include the standard disclaimer as I normally view that as excusing the one or apologising, where an apology is not in most cases warranted..

WHY IS THIS THE CRITICAL ISSUE?

Dear Daddy..

82.3% is the number of African American children born since 1990 that will not live in the same home as their biological fathers before graduating High School. Today, a generation of African American youth, have not had sustained access to positive paternal or male role models. Consequently, the concept of a residential father is often too removed from these children’s reality. Many of us know the statistics; too many of us have attempted to affect the multiple social, economic and educational dilemmas facing the African American community.Through outreach media, iYAGO Entertainment Group has dedicated its works to familial reconciliation and healing.

Female Sex Offenders Conceal Themselves..

It has been clearly demonstrated beyond doubt that single mothers are indeed in the majority of child abusers. Reasons for this is obvious as not only do they spend the majority of time with the child but also have endless issues within themselves and society in general. For whatever reasons women decide to have a child on their own, that responsiblity is not fully comprehended until they realise how much effort it takes to care for one child, let alone five children..
It is also assumed that women are normal, compassionate as well as automatic, preconditioned nurturers but this is far from the truth as mothers are the greater child abusers and murderers of children by far. This is completely ignored by feminists as they continue to ensure that mothers are automatically granted custody in the full knowledge that the child is put in harm's way.
Denying Fathers access to his own children only compounds the problem. Feminists are unconcerned about this issue as they fight any effort for joint custody..
Feminists once again demonstrate how irrelevant the child's health and wellbeing is, as long as their ideological aims of ensuring female supremacy rights are achieved at the risk of physical abuse and long term permanent psychological damage to the child..

Female Sex Offenders Conceal Themselves Through Societal Misandry

by
Marx

Published on 17th-November-2011 02:14 AM

The public tend to be convinced that men are the primary abusers of children, despite data confirming (repeatedly so, year after year) that in fact women (especially single-mothers) hold the top-spot for child abuse. This sexist stereotype encourages people to hold undue scepticism when claims of female child-abusers arise. And to add insult to injury, it creates a suspicion of the nearest man even when he has done nothing wrong. To make it even more deplorable, this attitude serves to offer female abusers a cover to hide themselves under. Despite such misconceptions of men as abusers, there is simply no denying that women are the primary abusers of children and men are not.

The DHHS (the US Department of Health & Human Services) reveal statistics showing that mothers abuse children some 70% of the time compared with fathers (30%).

Perhaps the most taboo abuse of a child by a woman is that of a sexual abuse case. Children in the care of female abusers often grow up with life-long psychological issues. Most of them are unable to openly discuss the abuse they endured at the hands of their mother or female guardian due to the societal ignorance towards female abusers of children. The fact is that most people, men and women alike, not only don't know that women can be abusive but they also don't want to know. It is a truly sad state of affairs when documented reports of rape or sexual abuse of a minor is laughed off by the police. All too often, this is considered by many as 'seduction' or an 'affair'. Worse yet, the main-stream media play along with this by using similar words in the headlines for such cases, thus offering the female abuser more cover for her misdeeds.

A problem we often see is authorities acting with amazement when they encounter a female paedophile. Why the amazement? It's quite unnecessary. By all accounts it should come as no shock that females commit the majority of child abuse as other research indicates that at least 1/3 (one-third) of male rapists and child sex offenders have been sexually abused by a woman. This is similarly found in support groups for male survivors of sexual abuse. It is common in those groups to find that between 1/4 (one-quarter) and 1/3 of the victims were sexually abused by a woman in their life. Most of these men cannot talk about their history as society is so bent on assuming that only men abuse and that women are 'too good' to commit such abuses.

Only in recent times has the NSPCC finally made any legitimate and public acknowledgement of female sex abusers of children. As recently as 2005 the NSPCC released a report stating that the disbelief of female paedophiles existence hindered detection. In a similar document by the NSPCC, it is acknowledged that victims of female paedophiles face unique problems that largely remain unaddressed.

Although it is generally accepted that the victims of female perpetrators manifest symptoms similar to those of victims of other types of sexual abuse, there is evidence to suggest that the victims of female offenders might experience particular difficulties. An increased sense of isolation, betrayal and stigma emerges as a key issue which can act as a barrier to the disclosure of abuse. In some cases victims might disclose being abused by a man, later to reveal that the abuser was, in fact, a woman. Others may disclose abuse at the hands of a male and later, once they have built up a relationship, reveal that a female was also involved. Again professional training on female perpetrated sexual abuse and its impact on victims appears to be a key issue in raising awareness and understanding among professionals who work with this group. It also recommended that therapists and clinicians should routinely ask about sexual abuse perpetrated by females in order to demonstrate that this is an acceptable topic for discussion and that any disclosure will be met with understanding.

The response of the criminal justice system is to marginalize abuse of females at worst and at best, simple disbelief. Instead, the CJS demonstrably prefers to assume that any female sex offender has been coerced somehow by a man and set a higher-bar of evidence for prosecution.

Due to the sexist policies employed by authorities (it is not worded directly as 'sexist', but it plainly is sexist) several recommendations were made after reviewing their data:

Identify the gender of the perpetrator.
Collate data to identify all forms of sexual abuse instead of only some.
Authorities to acknowledge publicly that female sex abusers do exist.
Give guidance & support to employees of local authorities pertaining to those dealing with female sex offenders who act against children.
Research & examine recidivism rates for female offenders.
Consideration to policies & procedures to establish a nationwide work-group to investigate the issue.
Training for those in the legal realm who deal with female sex offenders; such as the police, probation, judges, barristers and the like.
Ensure the training includes the reality that female offenders exist and to include victim & perpetrators characteristics. Also to focus this training on those who work with or as specialized child protection professionals.
To ensure professionals to routinely enquire about female sex offences to those they offer therapeutic services to.
Investigation of how child-victims face barriers when abused by female sex offenders.
Develop services for female sex offenders.
To ensure programmes for female sex offenders take consideration of the differing requirements compared to male sex offenders.

According to the BBC's News Magazine, men who are sexually abused by women in their childhood can manifest the problems as anger toward his wife or girlfriend in later life.

In 1992, Michele Elliott wrote a controversial book, "Female Sexual Abuse of Children". Due to this book's release, Ms. Elliott was contacted by over 800 (eight hundred) victims of female sex abusers.

“One of the issues of controversy is the thinking that if women do this, it’s because men made them do it,” says Ms. Elliot. “I disagree with that. I think there’s no difference in the motivation between men and women, which is sexual gratification and power over a child. It’s very selfish.”

All too often, a female sex offender can cloak herself in the societal presumption of male-guilt and female-innocence. To further abuse society as a whole, these women will occupy positions of care or provider to children, such as a mother, nanny, babysitter, housemaid, teacher and even social workers. Due to their role in a child's (or children's) life they have unrestricted and unsupervised access to children. From this powerful position they can then confuse the children into abusive sex acts by slowly gaining trust and love of the children. In fact, so common is this tactic amongst female sex offenders of minors, it is considered the modus operandi of the female sex offender.

Currently, feminist groups will do almost anything to deny female sex offenders exist - especially where children are concerned. Instead, they prefer to blame the patriarchy or men in general. Until feminist groups take the lead by acknowledging the reality of female sexual abusers of minors, society at large will continue to enable more female abuse upon children. Society must wake up and work to stop all child abuse - not just that which is committed by men, but all child abuse. If we could stop all child abuse as of this day, all child abuse by men that is, the majority of child abuse would continue and those responsible would continue to be given a free pass by society.

Bunting, L. (2005) Females who sexually offend against children: responses of the child protection and criminal justice systems. London: NSPCC. [NSPCC Policy Practice Research Series].
ISBN: 1842280546

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Update Nov 19, 2011..

According to Author and director of the UK Charity Kidscape, Michelle Elliot, over 75% of cases of child sexual abuse by adults were committed by women acting alone or without male participation, and this, according to Elliot, “messes up the narrative”. Elliot was blacklisted following her publication of “female sexual abuse of children” in 1994.

Ovaries Does Not A Leader Make..

Possessing ovaries does not a better leader make. Especially when those ovaries are artificially inseminated like cows are with bull sperm. Not a nice way to begin life in my way of thinking. I can see it now, "mommy, where do I come from" and the response would be "a bottle, dear (as I could not find an appropriate sucker)"..

Tossed from Office 2011

Charming how those women have no problem bringing a child into a lesser world minus a parent, where it's entire young age will consist of listening to a post-everything mother. There should be a law against it..

Brave New Choice Mommy World

The mind reels at the potential adverse consequences incident to choice mommyhood of the sperm donation variety:

Cynthia Daily and her partner used a sperm donor to conceive a baby seven years ago, and they hoped that one day their son would get to know some of his half siblings - an extended family of sorts for modern times. Today there are 150 children, all conceived with sperm from one donor, in this group of half siblings, and more are on the way. "It's wild when we see them all together - they all look alike," said Ms. Daily, 48, a social worker in the Washington area who sometimes vacations with other families in her son's group.

The Worst STD of all..
As more women choose to have babies on their own, and the number of children born through artificial insemination increases, outsize groups of donor siblings are starting to appear. While Ms. Daily's group is among the largest, many others comprising 50 or more half siblings are cropping up on Web sites and in chat groups, where sperm donors are tagged with unique identifying numbers. Now, there is growing concern among parents, donors and medical experts about potential negative consequences of having so many children fathered by the same donors,

Well at least the child will experience some reality with an extended set of step-relatives to cheer him up, whoopee..

Male Hater Featherstone..

Anyway, back to that nasty bit of work by the name of Lynne Featherstone(Blog), a liberal democrat from England who blamed men for all things under the sun simply because that's what feminists do as they really do not have any other alternative but to wave the magic "V" flag as the answer to all questions and answers. Just ask them or their worshipping manginas while you are at it..

But, occasionally, sanity does prevail and this happens now more often than not as more and more people send out the message that they are sick to death of feminists and their endless unreasonable demands plus their endless male-bashing and truth denying antics..

Having ovaries doesn't make you a better person

Elizabeth Day
The notion that women would make a better fist of running the world than men is risible

Her actual argument, delivered to a fringe meeting, was that if you leave things to men, "you get terrible decisions". "Look at the mess the world is in, and look who has been in charge," she said.
Leaving aside the fact that, over the past 50 years, there have been quite a few women running fairly important things like, um, countries (Margaret Thatcher, Angela Merkel, the newly-elected Helle Thorning-Schmidt), what galls me most about Featherstone's comment is that it falls into the trap of inverse sexism, of treating women and men as a homogenised mass of "femaleness" or "maleness".

Life in the Matriarchy..

You know on the odd occassion that somebody states something and you shake your head thinking "what, how the hell do you ever come to that conclusion". Well may you ask, as I have located another one of those brainsnaps, one that the ability to create incredulity..

"I'm sure she'll make a wonderful mum and will teach her children discipline like I have."

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3753913/Sexy-pics-at-12-pregnant-at-15-and-her-proud-mums-delighted.html

Sexy pics at 12, pregnant at 15 ...and her proud mum delighted | The Sun |News

A SCHOOLGIRL who posed aged 12 for controversial bikini pictures in a magazine is now pregnant at 15 - to the joy of her mum.The shots of Soya Keaveney outraged parents, who blasted mum Janis for fuelling the youngster's obsession with a modelling career.But now that dream is on hold after Soya got pregnant by a 17-year-old boyfriend who is allowed by Janis to stay overnight at the family home.

Jobless single mum Janis, 48, said she was delighted because the council will now have to give her a bigger house.She added: "Our three-bedroom place was already overcrowded with her sisters Coco and Ritzy, her brother Tarot, Soya's boyfriend Jake and one of her sister's babies."Once the new baby comes the council will have to find us a place with four or five bedrooms."We've already started packing. Soya's very much against abortion and there was never any doubt she would keep her baby.

"I'm sure she'll make a wonderful mum and will teach her children discipline like I have."

The Mommy Edition: Single Moms Cracking Up..

In this day and age where the ratio of single mothers to actual families with two parents, a dad and a mom, just like the good old days when they knew that it was better for the children and their own sanity..
But now, we have single mothers who are of the opinion that raising kids on their own is not only a piece of cake but does not have any detrimental or create any psychological issues or harm to children, is living in dreamland. Too many studies have already thrown that opinion on the scrapheap of ignorance and stupidity but they live on in hope that it does not apply to them. This "head in the sand" attitude apparantly reigns supreme in that sex as the one parent homes continues to rise and feminism can take the credit for creating it..

Let's have a look at some of the endless moaning straight from the horses mouth..

Every mom has a secret.“I cry myself to sleep sometimes because I am overwhelmed and I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about it.”

Apparently every mom has an endless whine as well..

Nearly one in five moms admits medicating their child to get through a special event like a plane flight; one in 12 does it just to get some peace and quiet on a regular night.
Half have knowingly sent a sick kid to daycare or school.
85 percent use their kids to get out of social obligations.
Nearly one in three uses work as an excuse to avoid taking care of the kids.
And sometimes the secrets are thoughts we don’t dare tell anyone else:
44 percent of moms would rather be 15 pounds thinner than add 15 points to their child’s IQ.
One in ten wishes their child was the opposite sex – and of those moms, 60 percent have boys

Another shared: “I am managing to hold it all together and still be sane. In reality I am on the verge of a breakdown at any time and who knows what is going to push me over the edge!”

One mom wrote anonymously:“People frequently remark that I seem to have everything ‘so together.’ I don't! I find myself crying in the car on my way to work because I am so overwhelmed.”

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