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But we are angels, do you know..
Violent women have been around as long as history was being enacted but now we finally have the "revelation" that it is really just a new phenomena, bullshit. Women have been abusing and bashing the crap out of all and sundry for so long that they had to finally confess it to be true.  In the past it was just swept under the carpet and ignored, especially by feminists.
The main culprits are feminists ofcourse, their blatant lies and disinformation have endlessly denied and fought against the truth being exposed. As feminism would die a great big death if they stopped promoting females as perpetual victims along with their endless denial, that they are aggressors at all, guaranteed endless funding for promoting their hate movement would be at risk..

The entire feminist hegemony relies heavily on government funding and it receives billions of dollars every year from known manginas(males for female supremacy) like Obama and feminist leaders like Gillard in Australia, who have no issues with their anti-male bias as well at their general hate for society and all things family..

What appals me the most is not that these confessions finally surface, as its about time, but the "Oh gosh, did we do that" whitewashing mentality is galling and unnecessary as well as being completely artificial. No one on this planet is surprised that women are abusive as we have witnessed that from our youth. It has always been the case that female aggression has been grossly understated.
Women's Enews: Women Are Aggressors, Too
Caryl Rivers and Rosalind C. Barnett
December 4, 2011
(WOMENS ENEWS)– 
Times are changing. Girls aren’t so “girly”anymore.
Perhaps it began with early female action figures. Perhaps with
“Charlie’s Angels.” Or maybe with scores of elementary girls
playing soccer, or with older girls playing contact sports at elite
levels. 
Most likely we will never know exactly how or when it became okay to
talk about female aggression–female-to-female aggression and
female-to-male aggression. Whatever its origins, this new narrative is
challenging the once omnipresent scenario of the male violent
aggressor–passive female victim scenario. It is now increasingly
acceptable to talk openly about female aggression and to conduct
serious research on this topic.
We now know that women-on-women aggression is far from rare and that
women are often the initiators of male-female aggression. Surveys of U.S.
have found rates of wife-to-husband violence
“remarkably similar” to those of husband-to-wife violence.
And an early cross-cultural survey did not find that men were
significantly more aggressive than women.Aggression, as opposed to anger,  conveys an intent to hurt or harm and can be expressed physically, verbally or by withdrawing. There is general agreement that men exhibit higher levels of physical aggression than women,but the differences are small to moderate.
After a thorough review of the literature on who initiates violence in
couples, Murray Straus, of the University of New Hampshire, reports:
“It is painful to have to recognize the high rate of domestic assaults
by women. All six major studies which have investigated this topic found
that women initiate violence in a large proportion of the
cases.” 
Research Example 
For example, of the 495 couples in a 1985 Family Violence
Survey for whom one or more assaults were reported by a female
respondent, the man was the only violent partner in 25. 9 percent of
the cases, the woman was the only one to be violent in 25. 5 percent
of the cases and both were violent in 48.6 percent of the cases. Of
446 women who reported that they were involved in violent
relationships, their partners struck the first blow in 42 percent of
the cases. The women hit first in 53 percent of the cases, and they
could not remember who hit first in the remaining cases.
The great difference here is that women are far more often seriously
hurt or killed than men. A woman may start a fight with a slap, which
is mildly painful to the man, but he retaliates by punching her and
throwing her against the wall, breaking her jaw.But it is important to recognize that although men are predominantly
the murderers, rapists and batterers in human society, relatively few
men ever perpetrate these acts. If you discount the extremely violent
behavior of those few, the behavior of most men resembles that of most
women.Source: http://www.womensenews.org/story/books/111203/women-are-aggressors-in-household-violence-too



Male Power


Just as doctors and midwifes will lift the newborn at birth and declare it's sex, that same method will be used your entire life. Yep, it's a girl, welcome to a life of special treatment, government largess and every other possible privilege that can be bestowed on an individual is already in place, installed to ensure your life will be special. Automatic selection for employment, your selection for colleges and universities is just about guaranteed, promotion assured, even over much better qualified individuals and should on any occasion, someone even accidental pierce that halo, then you are given automatic preferential treatment under law, and the outcomes will be in your favour even if you lie about it, just on your word, no evidence required..
JTO.
Okay, there are laws – sure, and you’re governed by them, but you’re not protected by them.
Should the new born be that other sex, you know, cannon fodder for the female howitzers, then you are already doomed as a third class citizen after woman, child and then you. I bring you these facts so when you are thrown into that maelstrom of endless work, injustice and anti-male bias, you have at least been warned..




Man-up

There are no laws

There are no laws. If you’re a man, you can be murdered with impunity. You can be charged and convicted with rape based on nothing but anonymous accusation. Not just in a court of law, but hey, in a court of kangaroos cooked up by college students. Laws? Bill of rights? Ha! If a woman accuses you of misconduct, your conviction for sexual assault – on no evidence – means increased funding for people who depend on your utility and disposability.Okay, there are laws – sure, and you’re governed by them, but you’re not protected by them. We are now living in postlegal culture. Laws are selectively interpreted and enforced. This is nothing new obviously, the rich and the famous have always enjoyed privilege. However the legal system now operates along sexual lines, with you, my brothers, on the bottom tier. You’re not even a human being, buddy. Nope, you’re a disposable dispenser of labor, money, sperm, and on behalf of anyone but yourself – violence. The law says so.
Speaking of disposability, the appellation of “hero” in our culture depends on you sacrificing your future, and potentially your life on behalf of people who discount your humanity.
In spite of this, most men sleep-walk through life thinking they’re living in a culture which treats them as humans with rights. A listing facts which show this to be false is beyond the scope of this discussion. Link in this article’s footer for those interested[1].
Certainly many people are aware that their government illegally tortures both foreigners and Americans, arrests and indefinitely detains citizens without trial or charge, wire taps the population in violation of the bill of rights, steals private property through eminent domain, but people still sedate themselves with 4 hours of television per day and mumble something about it being a “free country” while they know it is not.
However, systemic financial fraud and personal destruction by illegal private courts operating with the complete endorsement of government seems conceptually difficult to grasp. Perhaps it’s just too similar to dystopian science fiction to recognize. When people are informed of these doings, because is is so far removed from popular understanding of living in a nation governed by laws – they dismiss factual reporting of the phenomena.
Another reason for public ignorance and apathy is that people still believe they’re enfranchised citizens. They believe they’re protected by the civil liberties encoded into law. These assumptions are wrong, of course, but the illusion persists, re-enforced by the momentum of a formerly democratic society and by cultivated misdirection in mainstream media. The unfortunate truth is that men are effectively peasants; chattel without legal rights. This isn’t reflected in the formal structure of law in our culture, which is now mostly ignored as a matter of convenience, and that’s partly why it goes mostly unaddressed by men.
The maintained illusion of legal enfranchisement is vitally important, because if men understood consciously they are peasants – they would do what disenfranchised and abused peasant populations has always done through history.

Rest of the article here..

It would not be too often that I would list anything from the prominent feminist moan sheet of Huffington post. In my opinion not only is it misandric to the extreme but if you have a look at the comments you could only witness nasty little feminists and their lunatic supporters waxing lyrical on how everything wrong on this planet is not women's fault..

So I was surprised to read an article even remotely sane and considerate towards our sex and actually not taking the "victimhood specialists" side. It is quite a shock to actually read any article that claims that women are the obnoxious and violent bitches we all know them to be without excuse or denial..

Refreshing to say the least and probably as rare as well..

Are Men Society's Scapegoats?

Vicki Larson

Gabriel Aubry is being a bad dad. Well, we don't know that for a fact; all we know is that actress Halle Berry, with whom the model had a daughter, now 3, is claiming that he's been neglectful. She may be right, she may be wrong, but in the eyes of much of the world, Aubry's already guilty.
People can -- and do -- say anything they want in a nasty custody or divorce battle. And as a society, we often tend to assume the worst about men. But what if we're wrong?
We're used to men being violent. Literature, movies and video games are full of heroes and antiheroes who kill and maim their way into our hearts and nightmares. At the same time, we tell boys to "suck it up" instead of expressing pain, leaving them few emotions but anger. Then we chastise them when they actually get angry -- or live in fear of their anger. And sometimes we use the one emotion we've allowed them to our advantage.
Men, of course, aren't the only ones who can do damage; statistics show that women can be just as violent as men. But while the Violence Against Women Act provides millions of dollars for shelters for abused women, you don't see too many shelters -- any, actually -- for abused men. "It's often been taken for granted that women can't really do that much damage, so it's OK to maybe slap your boyfriend or do something of that nature," says Kellie Palazzolo, an assistant professor at Arizona State University's Hugh Downs School of Human Communication who is overseeing research on how college students perceive female and male perpetrators.
That may be why so many women applauded Elin Nordegren's alleged golf club attack on then-hubby Tiger Woods -- we just don't like to think of women being violent except in self-defense. He cheated on her; he made her do that!
And in the "he said-she said" of so many marital breakups, like that of Hulk and Linda Hogan, where she claims he was violent and abusive and he says she's "delusional," or of actress Meredith Baxter, who claims in her memoir, "Untitled", that she was physically and psychologically abused by ex David Birney, while he says her book's "an appalling abuse of the truth," whom do we believe?
Same when it comes to sexual violence. In the "he said-she said" of former International Monetary Fund chief Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who was released from house arrest last week, and the 32-year-old hotel maid he allegedly raped, the maid has a history of lying and Strauss-Kahn has a history of sexual predation. Whom do we believe?
Hélène Périvier, co-director of the gender program at Paris' Institut d'Etudes Politiques, worries the fallout of the DSK case may hurt women; while false reports of rape and sexual violence are statistically rare, she says, "it suffices to cement doubts and discredit the word of women going to the police in the future."
But women, like men, lie, and the results can be devastating. And false reports of rape and sexual violence are not as statistically rare as Périvier and others may believe, according to many experts, including Dr. Warren Farrell, chair of the Commission to Create a White House Council on Boys to Men, who details the results of numerous studies in his books "Father and Child Reunion" and "The Myth of Male Power." In fact, they occur often during divorce.
As Farrell writes:


"Men are about 19 more times more likely than women to say they have been falsely accused of sexual abuse. About 85 percent of these abuse allegations are made by women during battles over parent time, during the throes of divorce, or when a live-in situation is failing. ... "(A) sex-abuse charge -- even if false -- often costs the father his job, his health, his friends, his reputation, and his relationship with his child."

Like the hotel maid who allegedly discussed the possible benefits of pursuing charges against Strauss-Kahn, we're all -- men and women -- able to exploit each other. When it comes to custody cases, however, the odds are often stacked against dads. "Some women are coached to make false allegations of domestic violence, rape and child abuse," says Dr. Tara Palmatier, the no-nonsense founder of A Shrink 4 Men, in an email exchange with me. "Their attorneys may file baseless restraining orders to raise the stakes on men in the divorce or custody cases. These tactics don't just hurt men: they create widespread cynicism about the family court and the efficacy of the justice system."
Oregon took a bold step to address that last week when Gov. John Kitzhaber signed into law HB2183, which comes down hard on anyone knowingly making a false case of child abuse. The key is "knowing," says the bill's sponsor, Rep. Wayne Krieger, who acknowledged that false accusations often arise between divorcing couples.
But, how often is that? The U.S. Department of Health and Human Service's Administration for Children & Families says of the percentage of the 3.3 million referrals for child abuse and neglect in 2009 it investigated, "Two-thirds of reports found all allegations to be unsubstantiated or intentionally false (64.3% and 0.1%, respectively)." But child abuse or neglect is just a small part of false claims in custody battles.
Many high-conflict custody cases don't start out that way, Farrell says, because most about-to-be divorced moms recognize that kids need their dads, too. But divorce offers a chance to start over -- maybe move closer to one's parents or to a new love, or relocate for a new job. If a savvy lawyer informs a woman that her ex could get equal custody, thus putting the kabosh on her plans, and then asks if she ever feared him, whether he ever cursed at her, called her names, raised his voice or screamed in a fit of rage, "I'm so angry at you, I could kill you" -- and what marriage doesn't have some sort of anger, yelling or threats? -- well, there's a false case of abuse in the making, he says. Divorces can become high conflict if a dad, realizing that his ex's plans may cause him to lose his kids and he doesn't want to lose them, cries, "No way!"
In the custody battle between champion fighter Chuck "The Iceman" Liddell and his ex, Lori Geyer, over their 12-year-old son, accusations are flying on both sides. Who knows who's telling the truth? But one thing Geyer may have on her side is fear; she says Liddell tried to intimidate her by "pacing back and forth and staring her down." And fear is enough to raise the shadow of a doubt, Farrell says. Most judges would rather take the safe route -- after all, who wants to make a mistake and put a child or woman back in an abuser's control?
And so men walk around somewhat guilty until proven innocent. And sometimes, no one's too interested in proving them innocent.
Farrell is. He gets weekly calls from men who say they're being falsely accused. So is Palmatier. The clinical psychologist has worked with numerous men in abusive relationships who feel unheard. Men, she tells me, are often default scapegoats. A woman hits a man and we assume he did something to her to justify it. A father doesn't see his kids so he must be a deadbeat dad, even if the truth is that his ex has done everything in her power to keep him from them. A woman screams and neighbors call the cops who arrest the husband when it was the wife who assaulted him.
"As a society, we don't typically think of men in the role of a victim. We can't even recognize it when we're confronted by physical evidence," Palmatier writes. "On the other hand, we're inclined to believe accusations about men."
Not only is it unfair and dishonest, she says, but it's "damaging to boys and young men, gender relations, relationships, families and 'the best interests of the children.' And it gives the women who are predators a free pass."
Automatically assuming the worst of men is a form of discrimination, she, Farrell and others say. And they're right.
Halle Berry says Gabriel Aubry is being a bad dad, just as many women say about their exes. Whom do you believe?