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One does have to wander into the realms of incredulity to wonder why SKY TV would organise a debate about Fathers accessing their children after divorce and give air time to a male hating radical lesbian feminist.  The topic of the debate with Matt O'Conner, founder of the Fathers4Justice org..

That feminist, Julie Bindel, who has contaminated this very blog with its' article, a piece of misandry rubbish, named "I hate Men"..

Julie Bindel :The Typical Abusive Lesbian Feminist..

 What the hell would a lesbian know about Fathers relationship with his children, you may well ask and also the next question of "what the hell do they know about heterosexual relationships" would definitely be the next..

One did wonder, as one also wonders why the female interviewer quitely sat there and gave air time to that male hater and never quiried any of those false claims and mantras she was wallowing in and sprouting the entire time..

Matt hit that attitude right on the head and stated that she was on the wrong program if she wanted to discuss domestic violence, this topic is on Fathers and their children, (Ed.you silly cow)..

I know it's normally painful watching and listening, and this is no exception, to watch another feminist and especially one this repulsive, obnoxious and revolting as it is, but I had to suffer it..




It has been clearly demonstrated beyond doubt that single mothers are indeed in the majority of child abusers. Reasons for this is obvious as not only do they spend the majority of time with the child but also have endless issues within themselves and society in general. For whatever reasons women decide to have a child on their own, that responsiblity is not fully comprehended until they realise how much effort it takes to care for one child, let alone five children..
It is also assumed that women are normal, compassionate as well as automatic, preconditioned nurturers but this is far from the truth as mothers are the greater child abusers and murderers of children by far. This is completely ignored by feminists as they continue to ensure that mothers are automatically granted custody in the full knowledge that the child is put in harm's way.
Denying Fathers access to his own children only compounds the problem. Feminists are unconcerned about this issue as they fight any effort for joint custody..
 Feminists once again demonstrate how irrelevant the child's health and wellbeing is, as long as their ideological aims of ensuring female supremacy rights are achieved at the risk of physical abuse and long term permanent psychological damage to the child..

 Female Sex Offenders Conceal Themselves Through Societal Misandry

The public tend to be convinced that men are the primary abusers of children, despite data confirming (repeatedly so, year after year) that in fact women (especially single-mothers) hold the top-spot for child abuse. This sexist stereotype encourages people to hold undue scepticism when claims of female child-abusers arise. And to add insult to injury, it creates a suspicion of the nearest man even when he has done nothing wrong. To make it even more deplorable, this attitude serves to offer female abusers a cover to hide themselves under. Despite such misconceptions of men as abusers, there is simply no denying that women are the primary abusers of children and men are not.

The DHHS (the US Department of Health & Human Services) reveal statistics showing that mothers abuse children some 70% of the time compared with fathers (30%).

Perhaps the most taboo abuse of a child by a woman is that of a sexual abuse case. Children in the care of female abusers often grow up with life-long psychological issues. Most of them are unable to openly discuss the abuse they endured at the hands of their mother or female guardian due to the societal ignorance towards female abusers of children. The fact is that most people, men and women alike, not only don't know that women can be abusive but they also don't want to know. It is a truly sad state of affairs when documented reports of rape or sexual abuse of a minor is laughed off by the police. All too often, this is considered by many as 'seduction' or an 'affair'. Worse yet, the main-stream media play along with this by using similar words in the headlines for such cases, thus offering the female abuser more cover for her misdeeds.

A problem we often see is authorities acting with amazement when they encounter a female paedophile. Why the amazement? It's quite unnecessary. By all accounts it should come as no shock that females commit the majority of child abuse as other research indicates that at least 1/3 (one-third) of male rapists and child sex offenders have been sexually abused by a woman. This is similarly found in support groups for male survivors of sexual abuse. It is common in those groups to find that between 1/4 (one-quarter) and 1/3 of the victims were sexually abused by a woman in their life. Most of these men cannot talk about their history as society is so bent on assuming that only men abuse and that women are 'too good' to commit such abuses.

Only in recent times has the NSPCC finally made any legitimate and public acknowledgement of female sex abusers of children. As recently as 2005 the NSPCC released a report stating that the disbelief of female paedophiles existence hindered detection. In a similar document by the NSPCC, it is acknowledged that victims of female paedophiles face unique problems that largely remain unaddressed.

Although it is generally accepted that the victims of female perpetrators manifest symptoms similar to those of victims of other types of sexual abuse, there is evidence to suggest that the victims of female offenders might experience particular difficulties. An increased sense of isolationbetrayal and stigma emerges as a key issue which can act as a barrier to the disclosure of abuse. In some cases victims might disclose being abused by a man, later to reveal that the abuser was, in fact, a woman. Others may disclose abuse at the hands of a male and later, once they have built up a relationship, reveal that a female was also involved. Again professional training on female perpetrated sexual abuse and its impact on victims appears to be a key issue in raising awareness and understanding among professionals who work with this group. It also recommended that therapists and clinicians should routinely ask about sexual abuse perpetrated by females in order to demonstrate that this is an acceptable topic for discussion and that any disclosure will be met with understanding.
The response of the criminal justice system is to marginalize abuse of females at worst and at best, simple disbelief. Instead, the CJS demonstrably prefers to assume that any female sex offender has been coerced somehow by a man and set a higher-bar of evidence for prosecution.

Due to the sexist policies employed by authorities (it is not worded directly as 'sexist', but it plainly is sexist) several recommendations were made after reviewing their data:
  • Identify the gender of the perpetrator.
  • Collate data to identify all forms of sexual abuse instead of only some.
  • Authorities to acknowledge publicly that female sex abusers do exist.
  • Give guidance & support to employees of local authorities pertaining to those dealing with female sex offenders who act against children.
  • Research & examine recidivism rates for female offenders.
  • Consideration to policies & procedures to establish a nationwide work-group to investigate the issue.
  • Training for those in the legal realm who deal with female sex offenders; such as the police, probation, judges, barristers and the like.
  • Ensure the training includes the reality that female offenders exist and to include victim & perpetrators characteristics. Also to focus this training on those who work with or as specialized child protection professionals.
  • To ensure professionals to routinely enquire about female sex offences to those they offer therapeutic services to.
  • Investigation of how child-victims face barriers when abused by female sex offenders.
  • Develop services for female sex offenders.
  • To ensure programmes for female sex offenders take consideration of the differing requirements compared to male sex offenders.
According to the BBC's News Magazine, men who are sexually abused by women in their childhood can manifest the problems as anger toward his wife or girlfriend in later life.

In 1992, Michele Elliott wrote a controversial book, "Female Sexual Abuse of Children". Due to this book's release, Ms. Elliott was contacted by over 800 (eight hundred) victims of female sex abusers.

“One of the issues of controversy is the thinking that if women do this, it’s because men made them do it,” says Ms. Elliot. “I disagree with that. I think there’s no difference in the motivation between men and women, which is sexual gratification and power over a child. It’s very selfish.”
All too often, a female sex offender can cloak herself in the societal presumption of male-guilt and female-innocence. To further abuse society as a whole, these women will occupy positions of care or provider to children, such as a mother, nanny, babysitter, housemaid, teacher and even social workers. Due to their role in a child's (or children's) life they have unrestricted and unsupervised access to children. From this powerful position they can then confuse the children into abusive sex acts by slowly gaining trust and love of the children. In fact, so common is this tactic amongst female sex offenders of minors, it is considered the modus operandi of the female sex offender.

Currently, feminist groups will do almost anything to deny female sex offenders exist - especially where children are concerned. Instead, they prefer to blame the patriarchy or men in general. Until feminist groups take the lead by acknowledging the reality of female sexual abusers of minors, society at large will continue to enable more female abuse upon children. Society must wake up and work to stop all child abuse - not just that which is committed by men, but all child abuse. If we could stop all child abuse as of this day, all child abuse by men that is, the majority of child abuse would continue and those responsible would continue to be given a free pass by society.

Bunting, L. (2005) Females who sexually offend against children: responses of the child protection and criminal justice systems. London: NSPCC. [NSPCC Policy Practice Research Series].
ISBN: 1842280546


Link to Antimisandry

Update Nov 19, 2011..

According to Author and director of the UK Charity Kidscape, Michelle Elliot, over 75% of cases of child sexual abuse by adults were committed by women acting alone or without male participation, and this, according to Elliot, “messes up the narrative”. Elliot was blacklisted following her publication of “female sexual abuse of children” in 1994.

I have come across Flood (feminist female supremacist enabler) a few times in the past, even debated that feminist drone directly. His overall attitude towards fathers introduces a new meaning to cognitive dissonance. If one has had the displeasure of reading any of his biased, sexist and discriminatory ramblings, they would certainly agree.

I did spend a fair bit of time back then, motivating government departments, politicians and the media to introduce this service as nothing was in place for men or boys in Aus. The obvious sexism was there for all to witness as services available to women would outstrip the men's options by a thousand to one. Nothing much has changed there either..

This individual (Flood) was actually a reference on the female run (Alyson Miller, Chief Executive Office and predominantly run by the "jobs for the girls" clubMen's Help Line in Australia as part of the Aus. Gov. attempts at calming the Father Rights/MRA's attempts at putting something in place to reduce the appalling male suicide rate in Aus. Back then when it first started, the suicide rate was over 3,000 per year and nothing has changed as far as I am aware, as this feminised (femocrat) government is either too incompetent as it follows the feminist interpretations/deconstruction on human behaviour and victim (male) blaming methodology, which is ofcourse totally useless. It could even be demonstrated to have increased the suicide rate rather than making any difference at all. The incompetent methods recommended by female supremacists such as Flood only demonstrates what a farce the entire situation really is..


Indoctrination in the Duluth Model for continued harm

November 16, 2011

Michael Flood – political indoctrination or education?
A student who knows I have an interest in domestic violence research recently forwarded me an email invitation she (and presumably all students on the James Cook University mailing list) had received, inviting her to a seminar “He hits, she hits: Assessing debates regarding men’s and women’s experiences of domestic violence.” An initial small glimmer of hope that the title might have implied the seminar would present an unbiased gender neutral approach to a controversial topic quickly dissolved upon reading the flyer. A major component of the stated aim of the seminar was to “assesses the political character and agendas of those groups involved in advocating for a gender-equal approach to domestic violence.” The presenter of the seminar Michael Flood, a purported expert in the field, appears to be locked in the seventies and still cites the discredited Duluth model as the preferred theoretical basis for addressing family violence.
A quick check of Flood’s CV revealed a recent article published in a journal called “Violence Against Women” http://vaw.sagepub.com, nope you wont find any non gendered view of reality there, the journal title conveys the ideology within.
Not unexpectedly feminist ideologues posing as academics choose such forums to expound on their male hatred and it would be hard to find a better example than this 2010 article “ ‘Fathers’ Rights’ and the Defense of Paternal Authority in Australia” . The central tenant of this opinion piece long on dogma and short on evidence is that men should be denied their democratic right to express opinions on issues such as false allegations of domestic violence, residency and contact with their children, and bias within the family court because by doing so, they are increasing “violence against women” and turning back the “significant advances of feminism.”
Implicit throughout the article is the false and unsubstantiated linkage of “violence against women” and “child abuse” as if they are one in the same thing, implying that any “fear” contrived by a mother automatically translates to a “risk” for the child. It beggars belief that one credentialed as a sociologist could be so illiterate of human nature. The overwhelming desire most fathers is to protect their children, they are expected to and would gladly if needed sacrifice their own lives to protect their children, and many have done so in the past. Such protective instincts come acutely into focus when a malicious and vindictive mother wants to enlist the states power to remove children from the safest environment, an intact family, to the environment that is well known to pose the highest risk for children of abuse, the mother headed household.
Flood insists that these evil fathers rights groups groups use typical rhetorical devices such as “an appeal to formal equality, a language of rights and entitlement, claims to victim status (and) the conflation of children’s and fathers’ interests.” The implication being that somehow none of these well abused feminist tactics should be used to counter the ideology who pioneered them. Kinda reminds me of the “fight fair” idea espoused to “perpetrators” of DV, which essentially says don’t ague with a women, thats domestic abuse!
Although Flood is dismayed that men’s rights groups have achieved such visibility, he accepts that “Painful experiences of divorce and separation, as well as experiences of family law, produce a steady stream of men who can be recruited into fathers’ rights groups.” But rather then offering any concern for the steady stream of dispossessed men or addressing the cause of their pain, or acknowledging the consequent suicide rates for men, he laments that such increased numbers of recruits may increase the political influence of mens groups.
In Floods’ words it is quite acceptable that “Women’s movements in Australia have had a distinctively high level of direct involvement in government policy making, with feminist bureaucrats or “femocrats” playing key roles,” but quite unacceptable that “ Fathers’ rights groups have become vocal opponents of feminist perspectives.” His sexist agenda clearly being that women’s voices should not only be heard but acted upon, while mens groups should not even have the right to speak.
Amongst the supposed achievements of feminism he notes, is making “violence in the home a criminal offence.” No mention is made that criminal assault and battery has always been an offence no matter where it takes place, rather the achievement of feminism was creating a new class of criminal out of men who dared disagree with women, at a time disagreement is most likely to occur, after a women unilaterally decides to end a relationship. The women then uses control and power tactics to enlist the abuse industries considerable resources to achieve their often stated threat to financially ruin their spouse and alienate him from their children. This is the real state sanctioned and aided domestic violence and if it was, as it should be, acknowledged as such men would account for the majority of victims of domestic abuse.

More on this article from AVfM..

The Elusive Wapiti has posted a topic that I have for some period of time not only posted about but argued for for a considerable amount of time..

The topic is as follows -

Mr. Ablow, a psychologist and Fox columnist, laments that men don't have a vote in whether their offspring escape the uterus alive--and suggests that men should be able to say "no" to an abortion:
I believe that in those cases in which a man can make a credible claim that he is the father of a developing child in utero, in which he could be a proper custodian of that child, and in which he is willing to take full custody of that child upon its delivery, that the pregnant woman involved should not have the option to abort and should be civilly liable, and possibly criminally liable, for psychological suffering and wrongful death should she proceed to do so.
Link to the rest of the post..

I consider that to be a fundamental right of the Father to be, to have some say in either the destruction and future of what is obviously HIS child as well, considering that the child would not exist without his intervention and HE made it possible. The future mother however is born with all the eggs for future gestation already ensconced and thereby really does not do anything else except create the condition for the egg to be fertilised and thereby she becomes pregnant and carries the child until it's had enough and wants to get out of the cocoon. Some fantasticals aka, feminists, and their minions actually claim that the woman "creates" life which is lie number one, also that this creation is a miracle made possible by the women which is ofcourse lie number Two. As all in all, it's the sperm that gets things happening and rolling along.

Compliments of the Better Health for Men Org..
However you look at it, it ain't happening unless a man has input, one way or the other and yet feminists have decided that it's "her body her choice", another of their mindless mantras that really mean swat but allows them to ignore the real creator of the child to be excluded every step of the way. Right up until it's born and then it's a totally different story as we all already know. It's hypocrisy at best and fundamental human rights denial at worst and this has to change..

By the way you will need a pair of these to feed it as well apparently..