Many sleeps ago, my third eldest sibling had a birthday coming up and I was a little perplexed about what to buy her for her sixth year on the planet. I asked her "what would you like for your birthday, a doll or a truck". She responded and said she would like a truck and she promptly opened her Tonka truck with tip tray and big enough to almost ride on, on the day. Many years later, she commented about that particular present as we were talking about her upcoming birthday. "Dad" she said "Do you remember that time you asked me whether I wanted a doll or a truck for my birthday and I said I wanted a truck". "Ofcourse I do" I replied wondering.
She said "I really wanted a doll". That doll now takes pride of place in the middle of her bed on top of the bedspread and copious pillows. I did wonder why she wanted that truck but never asked..

Feminism and feminists have wandered to and fro, regarding femininity as when feminism reared it's abusive head, it was mainly run by lesbians, male hating was their forte and nothing was going to change their attitude. No amount of male abuse and vitriol was considered sufficient. A bit like the endless marginalising efforts by most male hating feminists today, even though they claim to be the "new" caring, sharing version which is ofcourse another fallacy, a complete and total lie. Marcotte and Valenti are obvious examples that tosses that claim down the gurgle..

Feminist's claim that "we are the result of our environment and not our sex" has been soundly discarded as way too many studies have thrown that claim onto the scrap heap where it belongs. It is enjoyable to watch them make efforts at trying to prove otherwise. The odd lunatic parent keep the sex of their toddler "secret" like anyone gives a damn and deny the child it's normal, sex based requests for stuff they would like to play with. An action and attitude that is not only inhuman but downside cruel. Feminist mothers are the worst mothers you can find as they refuse to accept normal behaviour and try to manipulate the child to behave in a fashion that is based on a theory rather than nature, by forcefully changing a child's behaviour away from their normal behavioural pattern is only going to cause more issues than it fixes. It can only be regarded as child abuse. Any parent would be aghast at locking a child in a room with neither window or door and that is precisely what feminised mothers are doing to their child's mind..

So we have another feminist ignoramus agonizing over the same thing..

Cinderella ate my daughter

Here is my dirty little secret: as a journalist, I have spent nearly two decades writing about girls, thinking about girls, talking about how girls should be raised. Yet, when I finally got pregnant myself, I was terrified at the thought of having a daughter.
I was supposed to be an expert on girls' behaviour. What if, after all that, I was not up to the challenge myself?

Shopping for her, I grumbled over the relentless colour coding of babies. Who cared whether the crib sheets were pink or plaid? During those months, I must have started a million sentences with "My daughter will never..."
And then I became a mother. Daisy was, of course, the most beautiful baby ever (if you don't believe me, ask my husband).
I was committed to raising her without a sense of limits: I wanted her to believe neither that some behaviour or toy or profession was not for her sex nor that it was mandatory for her sex.
I wanted her to be able to pick and choose the pieces of her identity freely — that was supposed to be the prerogative, the privilege of her generation.
For a while, it looked as if I were succeeding. On her first day of nursery, at the age of two, she wore her favourite outfit — her "engineers" (a pair of pin- striped overalls) — and proudly toted her Thomas the Tank Engine lunchbox.
My daughter had transcended typecasting. Oh, how the mighty fall. All it took was one boy who, while whizzing past her in the playground, yelled, "Girls don't like trains!" and Thomas was shoved to the bottom of the toy chest.
Within a month, Daisy threw a tantrum when I tried to wrestle her into trousers. As if by osmosis, she had learned the names and gown colours of every Disney Princess.
She gazed longingly into the tulle-draped windows of the local toy stores and, for her third birthday, begged for a "real princess dress" with matching plastic high heels.

 Yet another one wakes up and notices that the sun will shine if the child is permitted to live their own life instead of manipulating it to their latest variation of that doctrine. It changes weekly..
Feminism have done a complete reversal and people are just ignoring their doctrinal ragings as it's failure is once again displayed by one of their own, after all that handwringing and tissue usage. But would they ever admit that the feminist doctrine, that wish list, that experiment, erred, or in this case, totally screwed it up. That confession will be a long time coming..

That, at long last, they could "have it all": be feminist and feminine, pretty and powerful, earn independence and male approval. Then again, maybe I should just lighten up and not read so much into it.

ELLIE has left a new comment on your post "Being A Mother Is the Hardest Job in WORLD..": 

I wonder if you can read at all? My whole point is that mothers do nothing BUT tend to OTHER's feelings and needs and it gets laughed at, dismissed and minimalized and treated as if it's not work. "Real" work is only that of men? "Real" work is only that which brings home a paycheck? "Real" work is only that which causes physical pain and suffering? Mothers DO work JUST AS HARD in a completely different way and most men would NOT trade places with a stay-at-home-mom for anything. Why? Because they KNOW it's hard work. 

Ellie..I wonder if you can read at all?

One can really understand why I don't usually bother with these female types, their hysterics and their total inability to being even remotely capable of carrying out a normal conversation without either being abusive or offensive, appears to be beyond their capability..

Unfortunately, Ellie is a very good example of "Today's Woman", self absorbed, obnoxious, self interested, always offended, the endless victim introducing strawman arguments just to argue her own self imposed purview. The good old "ask a question or make any nonsensical assumption" and then answer it all by yourself like it's supposed to be some level of educating "them men", when in reality, it's just really complaining about her own sex. Feminists have unrelentingly criticised mothers and deemed their efforts to be a total waste of time, where my sex will actually put up with their vacuous behaviour in order to spread the seed. We are the one's who wanted to keep you all barefoot and pregnant, according to feminastie doctrine, remember. So I have no idea what the hell it's referring to or who she trying to pin the blame on. This is one confused mother..

I fail to comprehend any of her points of arguments. Is it not a feminist ?

So in response to...."I wonder if you can read at all?"

Which comment are you referring to Ellie, as you posted four comments, slightly adjusted and they must have been an effort to post. But here they are. Oh, by the way, those five children that I raised were all under five and two were twins. You want to know what it's like to raise five children under five years old, just ask..

ELLIE has left a new comment on your post "Being A Mother Is the Hardest Job in WORLD..": 
Spoken by a man. Leave it to a man to have no concept of the words "emotionally draining". Physically, moms have it easy. No extraordinary heavy lifting or risking lives...but if you think nurturing isn't' work, being emotionally present for your children isn't work, being a personal chef, busboy, housecleaner, conflict resolution expert, cleaning up vomit, pee, poop...doing all of that with no days off, no pay, no glory, no 401k...maintaining patience in the face of constant need...if you don't think that's one of the hardest jobs out there, you're a moron.  

ELLIE has left a new comment on your post "Being A Mother Is the Hardest Job in WORLD..": 
Spoken by a man, of course. Only a man would not get the concept of nurturing being work. Ever heard of the expression "emotionally draining"? Nurturing is hard work. Being present with your child constantly is hard work. Playing the role of cook, cleaner, conflict resolver, nurturer, teacher, caretaker, launderer, etc. are all work. And it's done without pay, with no days off, with no 401 K. IF you don't think that's one of the hardest jobs out there, you're a moron.  

ELLIE has left a new comment on your post "Being A Mother Is the Hardest Job in WORLD..": 
Spoken by a man. Leave it to a man to have no concept of the words "emotionally draining". Physically, moms have it easy. No extraordinary heavy lifting or risking lives...but if you think nurturing isn't' work, being emotionally present for your children isn't work, being a personal chef, busboy, housecleaner, conflict resolution expert, cleaning up vomit, pee, poop...doing all of that with no days off, no pay, no glory, no 401k...maintaining patience in the face of constant need...if you don't think that's one of the hardest jobs out there, you're a moron. 

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Woozoo comments..


@ ELLIE:

I wonder if you can read at all too. Heck, I wonder if you have the ability to listen, because you don't. I wonder if not only do you have the ability to listen, but to also hear what is being said. I also wonder at your lack of ability to use reason, and use logic.

If I would have to hazard a guess, I would say no on all counts.

You aren't a victim, you are a willing supplicant. And right now, you are doing nothing, but showing us how much of a good student you were in your programming.

Gosh darn it, shut the f*ck up woman! And prey for your son's if you have any! We speak for them... not you. Too many people and entities speak for you (including yourself). Not enough speak for your son. If we don't, no one else will. Because there will come a day when they will have to deal with a dumb ass: like you! Smell the damn coffee!

Before you son's pay the price.... 

Normally, these type of comments from biased females as well as feminists with an axe to grind, end up in the bin, not worth the pixels to even read. But here it is waxing lyrical with insults and misandric rantings..

ELLIE said...
Spoken by a man. Leave it to a man to have no concept of the words "emotionally draining". Physically, moms have it easy. No extraordinary heavy lifting or risking lives...but if you think nurturing isn't' work, being emotionally present for your children isn't work, being a personal chef, busboy, housecleaner, conflict resolution expert, cleaning up vomit, pee, poop...doing all of that with no days off, no pay, no glory, no 401k...maintaining patience in the face of constant need...if you don't think that's one of the hardest jobs out there, you're a moron.

The problem with these type of comments is that it only demonstrates how ignorant and arrogant these type of females really are. Automatically assuming that because it's a woman, only she is capable of nurturing even though I have already demonstrated beyond argument and any possible denial, on more than 100+ different posts, included studies and research, that not all "moms" are natural nurturers, the child abuse and child murder statistics clearly demonstrates. Check that for yourself on any recognised government statistics site.  I''ll wait.............

The assumptions Ellie makes is just another indication on how women are generally incapable of recognising the fact that not only do men actually have feelings and are capable of emotions which she denies, plus we are quite capable of caring and raising children without the usual outrage, whining and hysterics demonstrated by the above. Not that it cares or would even be capable of recognising it, as you can see by the outraged response to this article , one by our talented Bill Burr (a comedian and a MAN ofcourse) in response to "Oprah's "all women are victims" misandric ravings. Bill puts his special comical spin to it and anyone with a sense of humour, would see the lighter side of that sketch..

But not the number one "you don't know how hard I have it", Ellie..

The other assumption made by this trawler is that she assumes that I have had nothing to do with raising my own five children, five kids Ellie, not just one. Kids that I raised, successfully into adulthood, without placing blame or bitching to other people on how hard it all was..

Ellie prefers to be in some way "offended". But, it is the way it is, childishness and immature behaviour reigns supreme. Well done Ellie, you basically demonstrate all those attributes plus throw in some additional "victimhood" messages, you poor thing you..