It is not too often that feminist women in their usual male-bashing utterances wax lyrical about feminist men. She was indeed being blatantly honest. I would like to say that it was provoked by reality rather than just utilising another opportunity to do some serious male-bashing but she was doing what they do so well..
So I was indeed surprised when I received the following comment from Janice, to be honest, I was almost taken aback..
Janice Erlbaum said...
Christian J! I'm so sad I never heard your podcast quoting my post of 2005, but I'm glad we meet at last. Thanks also for pointing out that the link to that post is broken -- it seems that when I migrated from Typepad to Wordpress, some very old posts became buried deep within the bowels of the internet; maybe I can find a way to fix or repost it so it lives on. Anyway, thanks again -- I hope you'll keep reading my work and exposing it to a wider audience!
So a couple issues arise from that comment -
So a little effort with the Wayback Machine assists with locating that sparkling bit of truth..
"Feminist Men": Oxymorons, or Simply Morons?Well Janice, at least we agree on one thing..
Lately, there's been a spate of "male feminists" posting at the BBs where I lurk. At first I saw them and I thought, great! I mean, I like feminists, and I like men, so you'd think I'd love this purported hybrid of the two. And yet, no, not so much, not so much at all.
As a matter of fact, it's caused me to realize that most of the men I've personally known who have made a huge hairy point of identifying as feminists have been either date rapists, mom fetishists, porn addicts, or bear daddies inflicting their frustrated pseudopaternal tendencies on women. They are some of the most passive-aggressive, patronizing, out-dishing without it-taking twerps on the planet, and they are poisoning the women's movement from the inside by sapping the hell out of everyone's goddamn energy.
And ofcourse what would be more fitting then to list a few comments from other admiring feminists..